Love

by Mike Litman

Millions of people spend their day in the absence of love.

I did for years as well. Years.

“Mike, love?”

Yes amigo, love.

Not that kind of love. A different kind.

We can’t express our best when we spend our time in an
environment that we don’t adore.

A painter’s canvas. An athlete’s field. A writer’s tablet.
They’re in love.

Tot many people are running around pursuing Guru #5 and his
gimmick, then Guru #27 and his gimmick, and then Guru #51 and
on and on and on.

Instead, they should be pursuing what they LOVE.

What you LOVE, what is the master key to your service and
success is so CLOSE to you that you most likely don’t even
see it.

Let me bring the great Napoleon Hill into this conversation:

From Napoleon Hill:

“A person is most efficient and will more quickly and easily
succeed when engaged in work they love.”

“When a person is engaged in work that they love it is no
hardship for them to do more work and better work than that
for which he is paid, and for this very reason every person
owes it to himself to do his best to find the sort of work
they like best.”

“The person who engages in work that he loves best does not
always have the support, in his choice, of his closet friends
and relatives.”

What do you ENJOY doing?

What problems are you qualified to solve?

What people’s pain do you feel?

What angers you?

What injustice bothers you?

What do you LOVE doing?

Forget about making $10,000 tomorrow in some business.

Put your attention into placing yourself in an area you’re
CELEBRATED and where you can serve others.

The more OBSESSED you are about helping a target market with
a problem, the more you’re applauded and the bigger your bank
account.

People will literally thank their creator they found you.

This is the LOVE FORMULA of the ages.

You LOVE them. They LOVE you back. They invest in you. They
improve their situation. You both profit.

You can’t do something you LOVE and think short term.

The expression of turning what you enjoy into a successful
business takes time.

Most people expect to plant and harvest, they forget to
cultivate. How sad.

Start small. Start part time.

This really frustrates me.

People’s SELF DOUBT is their greatest barrier to success.

Stop it.

Give yourself some credit.

Heck, you’re reading this right now. That says SOMETHING
about you.

You’re a WINNER, -amn it.

Stop settling.

Stop being great friends with inferiority.

Start believing you deserve a life filled with excellence.

Start ‘bettering your best’.

Stop being so self absorbed.

Start forgetting yourself into others.

The money will come. If you stay FOCUSED.

Focus is the key.

Focus is the key.

Focus is the key.

For once in your life, once, give yourself the GIFT OF FOCUS.

Love yourself enough to stay focused for 1 year.

When our self respect is low, we make ourselves VERY
susceptible to the ‘guru’.

Raise your SELF RESPECT and be your own guru.

Be the LEADER you were born to be.

Love yourself.

Respect yourself.

Be kind to others.

Start.

That’s it.

Are you ready?

Love Ya! You’re The Best!

Your Coach,

Mike

P.S. You’re unique. You’re ready to share your LOVE with the
world.
You read this far. (high five)

Share this post on your blog, twitter, facebook, email it to
your friends because people need to wake up to their BEST.

P.P.S. Don’t tell anyone this success secret of mine. Shhhh.
Move in closer. A little bit more.

Whenever I need help in something, I start helping everyone I
can see.
Everyone. I go the extra mile for everyone I can. The help I
need always shows up. SShhhh. That was between you and I.


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Brett T. Smith November 6, 2008 at 11:17 am

Hey Mike,

Great post!

I have learned in my many years in business working with people that if you want to build a long lasting business you have to treat people the way you would want to be treated. Many of my clients have been with me for years because we have a relationship and I don’t just treat them like a customer.

People want to do business with people they know, like and trust…

Very good feedback…

~Brett
http://www.FreeTrafficBigProfits.com

Kathy Chapman November 6, 2008 at 11:22 am

Hi Mike,

Great posting today! I have read many books that say the same thing and it is so true. If you love what you do, it is not work. I am in a home-based business that is so much fun to do that I go to bed thinking about it and get up thinking about it. And one of the things that I really love about it is that it is a business that you can use to show love and appreciation to the people in your life. What more could you ask for than to have a business that you can make money doing and this business involves showing people you care! Everyone wants to be loved, remembered and thanked so I really love what I do.

Thanks, Mike, for your uplifting messages!

Kathy Chapman
http://www.CardBusinessFromHome.com

Lane Fox November 6, 2008 at 11:34 am

Nice article. All too often people sacrifice themselves to others in a vain attempt to get approval and validation from those other people.

They never realize that the greatest validation of all comes from creating the greater good for mankind that God intends for them to create – i.e. the things they love.

So, I absolutely encourage people to let go of trying to get approval and validation from others and immediately begin working towards creating greater good and giving more goodwill towards others.

The subsequent validation, the subsequent joy you’ll feel from accomplishing, achieving, and blessing people will far transcend anything you could ever possibly feel from trying to get others to give you external validation and approval.

Lane Fox
http://www.MillionairesForJesus.com

Ann November 6, 2008 at 12:03 pm

Well put as always. I can easily relate to several of the principles you set forth. You say we plant but forget to cultivate. The bible tells us as long as the world remains seed-time-and harvest will remain! It’s the time part, the cultivating – we forget – how right you are! And your “secret” is safe with me! If we just applied Ephesians 6:8 – whatever good we do for someone else, God will cause to happen for us as well. What an awesome reminder – thanks.

Nikki Jourdan November 6, 2008 at 12:53 pm

What a beautiful illustration. It takes courage, discipline, a love of God, self and people to overcome a victim-spirit. Thanks for the reminder.

Nikki Jourdan

reina November 6, 2008 at 12:55 pm

Now that was incredibly timely..
Much obliged.
Gracias,
Reina

Kat November 6, 2008 at 3:07 pm

Very uplifting post! I must say I look forward every day, to everything you have to say.

The things I learn and ways i can change myself, have made me a better person – I am very grateful for what you do.

May God richly bless you.

A growing person,
Kat

Yot Yin November 6, 2008 at 3:07 pm

Uplifting pearls of wisdom; just what is needed to offset the cold, dark wintry season … Thank you so much!

Cathi Watson November 6, 2008 at 3:24 pm

Hi Mike,

Cathi Watson November 6, 2008 at 3:32 pm

Hi Mike,

There’s no way around it, the way you feel is the way you attract….I just love Leo Buscala, did I spell his name correctly…he was the master of LOVE!

Mike, you are so on target…how can you possibly build a business, a relationship without the foundation of LOVE!

LOVE is magnetic energy…when you put LOVE out there, that’s what will come back to you, that’s why I LOVE
HELPING PEOPLE, ENCOURAGING, MOTIVATING THEM with LOVE IN MY HEART TO THEIR HEART AND THAT’S WHAT YOU MIKE ARE ALL ABOUT!

Can’t you just feel the LOVE!

LOVE LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING AND WHEN YOU FEEL THAT LOVE, YOU’LL NEVER BE THE SAME!

LIGHT & LOVE

Thanks, Mike

Cathi
Google…Cathi Watson…click on LeMagazine August 2005.

Rodney Grubbs November 6, 2008 at 6:48 pm

Mike,

As always, great stuff! The part that jumps out at me was FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS. This is such a big barrier to people’s success. Keep hammering it home!

Help Someone UP Today,
Rodney

Luke Ennis November 6, 2008 at 7:25 pm

Thanks as alway’s Mike I needed to read it. My you alway’s be Blessed.
Luke

Luke Ennis November 6, 2008 at 7:30 pm

Great as alway’s !! I needed it. May you alway’s be blessed.
Thanks Coach. : )
Luke

Michael Dunn November 6, 2008 at 7:35 pm

Hi Mike,

So, so true!

I launched an online music radio station a year ago driven by the desire to expose at least a small part of the huge selection of great music that for the most part doesn’t get airplay (we do play some more well known tracks as well).

It was very much a labour (that’s how we spell “labor” in Canada) of love. I knew that if I focused on what I loved, the money would follow.

We now have a growing audience of listeners around the world which means I can now start approaching larger advertisers.

The “thank you’s” and positive encouragement I have received from both listeners and artists has helped me get through all the challenges, both technological and regulatory, I’ve had to deal with this past year.

“All you need is love!”
– The Beatles

Thanks for the great work you do.

Michael

Michael Dunn
Founder
http://www.planetnerve8.com
“The online station musicians listen to”

Jimmy Z November 6, 2008 at 9:10 pm

Dear Mike,
I can’t tell you how timely this message was for me.

I have a client who can’t or won’t pay me, and things have gone bad. I felt wronged and don’t think I can trust them anymore.

You reminded me to focus on what I love, the market I know, and know I serve well.

When I love what I do, and Focus, Focus, Focus on what I do best, the love just takes care of the rest!

God Bless!

Gratefully Yours,

Jimmy Z

Bridget November 6, 2008 at 9:19 pm

Hello Mike I beleave in every thing that you said here .But I doe some reason keep getting slaooed in the face I dont know whybut thats how it is.I do for others all the time nd get made fun of for it and I try to explain the great feeling that you get when you know tht you just helped some one who really needed it.no one can but that feeling,But I keep on trying and someone will scam me or takeit .I am glad that there are good people like you still in this world.So I will ask god every day to please help you and keep- you safe thanks for showing me there is still good out there

Sammir Kapur November 6, 2008 at 10:59 pm

Mike,

Everybody loves to be in a position they love to be…but the fact is it is not true for majority.

And reasons are many and the 1st one to my mind is that we live life as expected out of us rather than as we want to. we have conditioned our love. If this is that way we will love more…..it is their loss for not having my love and attention….they need to be this way for getting my love….

Mike we live in the world were our love, passion surrenders to living pressure, society pressure rather all sort of pressure.

Give us more…Give us insight to attain the level to give and get love with this limitation.

I love myself in loving your blog…;-).

cheers
sammir

Juan du Plessis (South Africa) November 7, 2008 at 12:30 am

Great post. Is it not strange how we so often overlook the obvious starting point…ourselves. It still facinates me that so many people expect a miracle that somebody else has to provide.

Javier November 7, 2008 at 2:46 am

Mike, you are amazing!

This book helped me a lot,
it has fun exercises.
It’s call the Passion Test;
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594630429/105-1488747-1126035?ie=UTF8&tag=vc0c-20&linkCode=xm2&camp=1789&creativeASIN=1594630429

Enjoy it!

Beaumont November 7, 2008 at 4:21 am

Mike,

I Really Needed To Read This Today, After The Week That I Had…”Start forgetting yourself into others.” This Is Something That I Can No Longer Allow & You Made That So Evidently Clear..

P.S. If I Read This For 30 Days Straight 3x A Day I Believe My Life Will Forever Change!!!

Thank You,

B. Bishop

Asif November 7, 2008 at 5:01 am

Mike, it seems like your messages get better everytime! I know there have been others that I thought were the best ever, this is among the best of the best. Thanks Mike. Your free messages are worth more than the paid books’ messages. You’re the best!

Fred November 7, 2008 at 6:03 am

Wow what a message.

You have know idea how down I felt today. This message you gave has just pumped me up and instead of focussing on the negative I’m gonna focus on the positive and help others out and the rest will take care of itself.
Thanks so much.

Deborah de Vries November 7, 2008 at 7:51 am

Hi Mike and all you guys who are listening to this wisdom

I stopped trying to please ‘others’ and started to do what I love a year ago. In six months my heartfelt offerings had become the World’s Number I Health download. OK, it’s been a tough learning curve – becoming a Voice Artist after being a Yoga Teacher: learning to be my own engineer . .. .there have been tears – but how GLAD I am that I am now expressing my love which is to help, to comfort and to open up a space – JUST as Mike says – where we find the inner leader. Not the external Guru – but our own authentic self who knows just exactly who we are and empowers us, with love,to express it.

I haven’t become a wealthy woman – in terms of money – yet – but what price could be put on hearing the news that my home made recording had gone around the world and that over 100,000 people had actually listened and benefited from these humble ‘journeys’.

Mike, I’m with you. I’ve always fought shy of the Guru, believing that somehow I am the magical person who can make it happen. I’m not a youngster – I am 52, had a difficult background to trnscend – and now, fairly recently divorced- quite financially challenged – but I am being me. I add in these facts to illustrate that I am ordinary in terms of many people’s experience and, like all us ‘ordinary’ guys, I have something unique to offer.

Thanks Mike, you’re the best and I wouldn’t sell my soul for a mess of pottage again. Keep talking to me Mike, it matters.

Love and best wishes

Deborah

http://helpmechll.co.uk (follow the link to Meditations, or go to iTunes and find Chill Meditation under podcasts.(health section) – it’s for free.
http://deborahdevries.com

Ampy November 7, 2008 at 8:19 am

Hello Mike,
Thank you for your e-mail and sharing your blog on Love.
It is inspiring and great food for the mind, heart, and soul.

May the God of the Universe shower you with good health, lots of Love, and abundance.

Sincerely,

Ampy

Josie November 7, 2008 at 6:58 pm

Yesterday, (Nov. 6th) was my birthday. This message of yours today speaks LOUDLY to me!
Thank you for the truth I hear in your words.
A new beginning of hope for me. God Bless.

Josie November 7, 2008 at 7:00 pm

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Josie November 7, 2008 at 7:05 pm

Starting this day I will begin my day with reading a message from you Mike. You’re
the man!

Johnny London November 7, 2008 at 10:27 pm

Beautiful stuff Mike

Love is another name for the law of attraction – when we move at the frequency of love we bring to us all that we desire…

Like attracting like…

Johnny
http://www.AffirmationStation.com

Dayo Akande November 8, 2008 at 7:29 am

Hi Coach Mike,
You article is quite impartful,refreshing and inspiring. Thank you for sharing one of the pillars of destiny fullfillment with us. I appreciate and value the information. God bless u, bless your family and the rest of the world.

Rajeev November 9, 2008 at 7:49 am

I loved and appreciated your article.

Rufus III November 10, 2008 at 6:28 pm

Coach Mike, You’ve only projected clarity and confirmation to what’s already in existence within, NOT just Me BUT others as well. I’ll go the extra mile in helping others, ONLY to see and REAP the HARVEST of HELP from OTHERS!
*BOTTOM LINE: GIVE IN ORDER TO RECEIVE….”SOW SEEDS IN OTHERS REAL ESTATE (CHARACTER)”
This is TRULY the ANSWER to EVERYTHING, and I MEAN EVERYTHING…”L O V E”

Thanks Coach Mike, I LOVE YOU and looking forward to more blogs on LOVE

Rain November 11, 2008 at 2:21 am

Great message!!! I ‘ve use simlar affirmations, But had commit to the year. Something chaos would breakout and I would forget and get lost. I really need this right now.

Thank you!!!

Yahya November 12, 2008 at 12:25 am

Mike,
Dear friend,lot of thanks to send me of your attracting article which gives me great pleasure to know LOVE.
Love is life it is every where to win everything.
Thanks\\\\
yahya

Robert November 13, 2008 at 8:05 am

Love is Power!
Love is Action !
Thanks Mike for remind me this love!

seleno November 27, 2008 at 11:58 am

Hi Mike , it’s 27 th, Happy Thanksgiving , Love U , Thank U .

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