I’ve talked about it so many times. Tons.
“Mike, what are you talking about?’
Amigo, stay with me, I’ll get to the point in a minute. A
moment.
Wrapped up in myself.
“It’s all about me.”
Me. Me. Me.
I didn’t even realize it. Not at all. That’s why it can hurt
our chances of success so much. I was like that for years.
Let me say something before I say something else.
One of the BIGGEST keys to success is having a WINNING,
ATTRACTIVE personality.
It is. No one can differ with that point.
Here’s how to assure yourself of NOT having a winning,
attractive personality.
Here’s how to assure yourself that you’ll NEVER be popular or
be a leader.
***Be consumed with yourself.
Self centered.
Little to no concern about the welfare of others.
It’s all about “Me. Me. Me.”
98.3% of the people reading this now say, “I’m so unselfish,
this has nothing to do with me.”
Are you sure?
Are you really sure?
You can’t have an attractive, winning personality unless
you’re unselfish.
Selfish personalities are cold, inward, and all about ‘my
needs’.
Look at a MAGNETIC, ATTRACTIVE person and see if they’re
selfish or unselfish.
Read what one of my favorite authors Orison Swett Marden said
in the early 1900’s, the book is called ‘Self Investment’.
“As long as a person remains cold, self centered, and self
contemplative, they will have no magnetism for others. They
will be shunned and disliked. No one will voluntarily seek
them. It is just a question of the kind of magnet he makes of
himself. The moment they show regard for and interest in
others, they will take on magnetic qualities, and attract,
where before they repelled..
They will draw others to them just in proportion to his
interest in them. As soon as they put themselves in another’s
place, takes a genuine interest in there welfare, and does
not try to shift the conversation to himself and his own
affairs, just so soon and no sooner will others take an
interest in them.
There is only one way to win love, and that is to love. Love
will break the bonds of selfishness and self consciousness.
Stop thinking of self, and take an interest in others,
develop and admiration and love for them, a real desire to
help them, and you will not fail to be loved and to be
popular.
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Is Orison amazing or what? Beautifully said.
One of the biggest keys to winning in life is TRANSFORMING
your personality.
It’s about eradicating your weaknesses and about becoming the
strong, powerful person you were born to be.
Are you ready?
Yes or Yes?
Good.
My suggestion would be to read what Orison wrote above again.
There’s genius in what he wrote that can’t be ’seen’ the
first time you read it.
I care about your success. I succeed when you succeed.
That’s been my mission ever since I was 19 years old (16
years ago).
I believe in you.
Love Ya! You’re The Best!
Your Coach,
Mike
P.S. I distaste the current level that I’m at. I know I can
be more, have more, help more. Generate distaste, anger for
where you’re at and start to see the BIGGER, BETTER you then
you can become.
The fastest way to grow is to help others grow. Forward this
post to your friends, facebook, and twitter.
Be a reward, a problem solver for others and your life will
change. And fast.
